Ok, so after much screwing around I realized:
1) what Sylvia was trying to say is that you must hibernate and resume your computer in the same state it was last shutdown. So for example, if I power up my FireWire audio interface, I must shutdown, boot up with the interface on, hibernate and make sure the interface is on before I resume. If i do this I do not get the windows error. So you must hibernate and resume with the same devices on as your last shutdown. Kinda makes sense. Same for USB devices, if you want them there when you resume, you must shutdown and boot with them on, then hibernate.
2) EXCEPT USB 3.0 which just does not seem to work with anything connected between boot or hibernate cycles on this mb (DX79SI). . Problem seems to have been around for years and not a solution found yet, still looking and started new thread for it. But (1) is the solution to the "your system did not maintain the memory map....." Error.
Matt